We almost never fight, but when we do it’s always about the bigger issue: our future together. I’ve told him that I’ll wait and believe he’ll be worth it.I know this all sounds like justification, but he really has made improvements in the past year.He said he’s not worried, that if we move in together, he’s sure we’ll stay together, like it’s a forever thing.
I was confused about how much effort I should put in the house... Maybe living with them, but I was living with my guy when we werent married.
Honestly, we didn't have any major issues and we were extremely compatible in every way...
He has always been a bit behind in the relationship...telling me at one point that he didn't even want a relationship when he met me, but that I was too good to pass up.
You don't even bother putting on makeup, because you are usually in sweatpants (or a fashionable onesie). Arguing (about literally nothing of importance) has become the new making out, and you wont stop until your S. agrees that is DEFINITELY more important than any other Monday night show, am I right? O.s house freaking out, youll be thankful to have another mom to calm you down. There is no one I would rather call when Im sad, happy, or just in need of a conversation.
In the beginning, you wouldnt dare burp or do anything less than appealing in front of your significant other. The fart barrier has been broken, you leave the door open when you go to the bathroom, and you may even pop each others pimples (if youre weird like that). Youre not afraid to disagree; in fact, you almost willingly disagree just for the sake of it. Whenever you go out to eat, you both scream CHIPOTLE! We even take color-coordinated pictures you could put on a Christmas card. But when you run into a mailbox, take out your side mirror, and run into your S. When you do poorly on a test, you get in a fight with your best friend, or something happens in your family, your S. Knowing someone is always there for you no matter what is one of the best feelings in the world. O., who has known me and stood by my side for years.
Theres something to be said for new and exciting, but Ill take my boring old married couple relationship instead any day.