This special piece is written by one of our team members who took the jump into dating a programmer before she had experience in tech, a few years back (while he picked up Python, she picked up Mandarin.) When we went on our first date, he turned up with a backpack. I knew he was studying Computer Science at New York University, I knew a lot of programmers.It’s hard to be an Indian and not have any programmers in the family. I’m sure he was laughing at me (inside) because it seemed like child’s play to him. He was a polyglot – he knew a ton of programming languages.He does complicated math-sy and science-y stuff every day so when I whip out my phone calculator to figure out the tip, he’s already done paying.Also, it’s not fun watching movies or show related to computers with him.He is a great human being with some sterling qualities but one thing I just don’t get it is how can he sit in front of a computer screen coding for hours and then come back home and sit in front of a TV screen and play on the Play Station. I’m all up for an ‘Assassin’s Creed’ or ‘Metal Gear’ marathon, but with just one condition – I like watching other people play them.I hate killing imaginary people/things in games but am all up for watching someone else blow the brains out of the Infected in ‘The Last of Us.’ I just don’t understand the need to play ‘Rocket League’ for hours at a time. After an exceptionally fun evening of speed-dating with the nerds, I decided to get in touch with the man who organized and MC-ed the whole event, one Matt Wasowski, a.k.a."The Boss of Nerd Nite" (as well as the author of the very nerdy book Anyway, I asked Matt if he had any special advice about how to flirt with the nerds.... HOW TO IDENTIFY A NERD MAURA: Let's get serious now — very serious.... MATT: As the Boss of Nerd Nite, I've always maintained a very broad — and thus, very inclusive — definition of The word applies to anyone who is both passionate and knowledgeable about one particular thing.
When you date a programmer, you realize a few key things early on. I come from an Arts background and the most complicated math I do is calculating how much tip I have to leave at the end of a meal.In computer science, this is known as the optimal stopping algorithm, aka the secretary problem. An abstraction layer capable of managing online dating for me: My first problem was solved: getting leads into the pipeline. If I changed my profile picture and got more “likes” as a result, that meant it was better.I was tracking data, which made it easy to see what performed best. I want to find the One, the special relationship that will last many years and multiply happiness. But I’m bad at small talk, and I jump too fast to intellectual conversations, making it awkward. I wanted to find the perfect match, so I wasn’t going to be an amateur about it. I’m a fat, bald, short guy whose only quality is that he isn’t an ax murderer. Since I’m 31, and eventually want a family, I figured I’d better not procrastinate. For any serious endeavor, you need a serious process.
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