And I assure you that—if you educate yourself on your infection, deliver the news thoughtfully be something that defines you.
Take the relationship slow, and she’ll be more deeply invested. But just like you don’t want to tell someone right away, don’t wait ‘til things are hot and heavy and you’re reaching for a condom, either.
She met a guy that she really likes and he told her upfront that he has an STD.
Now I am not going to go into the semantics of what he has, but lets just say its not curable.
Yesterday, my girlfriend received test results from her gyno appointment. We've been dating for 5 months, probably have sex about 3 times a week on average. I believe her when she says she didn't know she had it, else why come clean now.
It makes no sense to go after someone who is not going to leave a lovely parting gift. I have tried different tactics with her to explain that this isn't a situation you would want to deal with and she is telling me that if she walks away then she would feel she wasn't mature and was shallow.