But it's subtle, and of course, few would admit to surfing online dating sites for Chinese women, yet when the only girls they date are Chinese, then the probabilities are in their favour.
Having said that, I'm surprised at what British men, both young and old, generally get away with when talking about East Asian women (Chinese, Japanese, Korean etc.) as well as South East Asian women (Vietnam, Thailand etc.) I've heard my Caucasian friends recommend to their male, single mates that they should date “nice Chinese girls”, with the added bonus that Chinese women are far more sexually open-minded than Caucasian girls.
Such an impossible situation is made possible by Chinese women who aren’t able to say “no” when it comes to expat men.
Even though they have the edge on Caucausian women with their “slender, pliable figures”, the beauty of Chinese becomes a disadvantage when it comes to foreign men who are “more blunt about what they want than the average local fellows”.
Dating – the concept itself means different things to different people.
Some like to jump the gun while others are more into simple joys emanating from the littlest of things.
Do not, however, make the mistake of confusing the fact that these ladies are incredibly lovely and cheerful with any idea that they are docile or submissive. While in the Chinese culture it is traditional that the woman is the caregiver, and responsible for the house and home, and these women do honour that tradition, they still expect to be treated as an equal partner and they expect to be treated with love, dignity and pride. We are not interested in male members who are womanizers, or domineering users and abusers.
One thing it’s not, according to one female expat, is an ideal place for a western woman to find romance.
My wife and I were first introduced via the CLM site. I enjoyed the extra postings you offered, such as speaking chinise, china e-magazines and so forth. These traits make them some of the most desirable women in the world.
After many chats online thru the CLM site it was obvious I was in love with this woman. I hope to have a great relationship with the lady I found on you're site. A Chinese woman will be any foreign man's source of great pride; she will make him feel loved and cared for in a way that he has never known before.
I sent her flowers and like a flower our love has continued to blossom. I appreciate all the hard work that you do in protecting members both Chinese and other. I say that because you have treated me is if I am a part of your organization. As a lifetime partner, this is a lady who knows how to nurture her relationship with her mate, as well as how to properly raise a family.
In addition to their delicate and lovely features, Chinese women are also known the world over for their grace, refinement, loyalty, and family values.