An open mind is good, but you know how people who hit it off right away are like, "When you know, you know" and you're like, "Shut up you lucky brat"? Don't go out with someone you just it isn't going to happen with. That also applies to guys you haven't even met yet (like the dude who emailed me via OKCupid but used the dreaded C word to refer to women in his profile. If you want to keep trying, go for it, but make sure to be careful of his feelings too.
Eventually, you're gonna need the Urge To Kiss.
Of course, there are possible explanations to justify his behavior: Maybe he is under a lot of pressure at work; maybe he was hurt by an ex; maybe he is terrified of commitment.
He likes you enough, but he is afraid of your extreme enthusiasm, persistence and clinginess.
I think in most cases, it's pretty rare to know whether or not you have real dating potential with someone after only a few hours.
My question is, how long of a chance do you think you have to give the spark to develop?
” And your response is to shrug your shoulders and say: “I’m not sure really”, or even just “I’d like to be!
He wants something deeper than a physical relationship, but at the same time, he enjoys playing the field.
Despite all of the possible reasons, if a guy says he does not want to be in a relationship, he means it.
” Within The Maybe Zone there are typically two big traps.
There is the Friend Trap (commonly also dubbed ‘The Friend Zone’), and there is the Friends-With-Benefits Trap (sometimes called the ‘F-buddy’ Zone).
Sometimes when the guy knows the girl likes him too and he no longer has to woo her, he stops making effort.