Soon you’ll discover what you can expect and decide for yourself if dating one is worth it.Whereas a Western man values independence and equality it’s not so for a Korean man.I don't understand why anyone would eat Flaming Hot Cheetos without chopsticks (keeps the Cheetos dust from getting on the fingers). Don't assume I know how to speak fill-in-the-blank-Asian language. Doesn't matter who's with me, when I'm eating out, I'm going to reach for the check first. With parents and aunts and uncles getting into physical altercations over who gets to pay for dinner.
Once you date Korean girl you will get “Korean Fever”. This is totally wrong thinking and this is one of reasons why Koreans are afraid to date Westerns.Treat your girl with respect and do not push her to any sexual interactions if she is not ready for it. If you are a white skin, young, and what’s more good looking male then a lot of Korean girls will quickly and automatically judge you as some sort of playboy.While dating she might check your phone so better handle it without any comment.I thought, And sometimes it was, but oftentimes it really wasn’t. And these were some Sweet, intelligent, bake you a cake and talk about real-shit girls who had absolutely had it with Korean men. Myself and my other Western girlfriends had come up with a set of sort-of standards about Asian guys and one of them was that they would disappear for weeks or months at a time and then just call or text you out of the blue.It’s not that I had come to Korea obsessed with K-Pop and K-Dramas and wanting my own recreation of that sort of dynamic. It had happened to so many of us and it happened so regularly that we just figured it was a normal thing. I told this to my Korean girlfriend and she gave me a sort of sad, I feel-sorry-for you look. “If someone is doing that to you, it’s unacceptable behavior.” Bam!
I’ve never written about dating before on this blog.