But by our 30s, we have learned to see that our true value has nothing to do with a man or being a relationship.
You know that relationships do not make or break your life.
(You probably don’t attend a weekly pub night with your sorority sisters anymore.) With fewer fish to choose from — and likely a busier schedule that keeps you from leisurely bumping into Mrs. Right — now is a good time to give online dating a shot. Say goodbye to the rules, the formulas and the ticking clocks.I recently got out of a serious relationship and was "not excited," (strong understatement) to find myself back in the dating world.The thought of getting back out there made me want to climb into my bed and hide under my covers... But, I have been pleasantly surprised with what I have discovered and realized.Matchmaking sites can let you be specific about who you’re looking for and what kind of relationship you’re seeking. It’s okay to desire marriage and a family, but you can’t go on a date accessorized with the desperate pressure to settle down.More important than getting married or raising children is being with the right person. Right Now, and don’t scare off a great gal with your impatience. With age comes wisdom; you’ve learned from past mistakes and now know what you need in a relationship and what you have to offer.
I identify much more with the characters and their struggles. Because dating in your 30s is very different from dating in your 20s.