Early-stage TMI is a major turn-off for most males."Men feel disoriented when you disclose intimate details too soon," says Kreidman.Absence creates anticipation and a feeling of "If I don't see her now, I'll die." When he calls, "let your voice mail pick up now and then," says Sherry Argov, author of ."It shows him that you're worth the wait and effort.If so, then the following is my gift to you on how to make the best of your date with a Virgo. So if you hadn’t done already, I suggest you take a quick look at the day’s news in case he asks you what you thought of the crisis in the Middle East – Seriously!I once ended a relationship with a girl because she’d never heard of the hospital superbug bacteria, MRSA.Allow him to simmer, wondering what you're doing." Laura,* 21, won over her boyfriend using this trick."Andrew looks like Brad Pitt's little brother, and I knew he was used to women being at his beck and call," she says. But I'm all ears now.' He felt lucky to have caught up with me." How everybody wins: Men, says Argov, equate longing with love.
When he'd leave a message on her home line, Laura waited at least a day to call back. The waiting game lets you test his willingness to pursue, adds Ellen Kreidman, Ph D, author of The game plan: When you date a guy you dig and get that urge to share your personal experiences, opinions, history...stop! The simple fact he’s chosen you of all the girls available should give you a boost already. Because Virgos are meticulous about everything that is important to them, and romance is definitely one of those things.However, are you reading this because your best/annoying friend told you her one date with a Virgo man ended in tears? The reason I ask is because Virgos are extremely cultured and intelligent people, so much so that they should have been your ‘phone a friend’.It is a delicate balance, but really you just have to remember two basic facts about men: I remember once when I was dating a woman and I texted her, asking if she wanted to do something that evening.She texted back saying: “I’m going to that concert I told you about tonight with my friends.
Trying to play the “cool card” when you are anything but, isn’t going to bring him closer.